Many times in our lives we have opportunity to step back and watch as our spouse, our child, our boss, our relative listens to their own guidance and timing regarding the lessons they came to learn here on Earth. Whether or not we agree with their choices isn't important. Our ability to support them in their own learning is.

    Since we don't know what particular lessons they came to learn, it is our job to accept and allow. It may contradict that part of us that would just like them to"get it".
That part of us that feels that if they would just "get it" our lives would be much better, less stressful, more joyful and flow so much easier. We often exhaust ourselves efforting to make sure they "get it" only to find that we are the ones who need to "get it".

   In healing the emotional body and the inner child the person who has the "charge" on the issue or behavior is the one who needs to do the work. So if you have a "charge" on someone in your life "getting it", it's time for you to do the work and find out what is triggering you. Initially this may seem backwards. You may think that the person with the upsetting behavior or actions should be the one to do the work. That's when you need to breathe, relax, open your heart and allow the miracle to occur. The miracle is when you are able to feel, see or experience why this persons behavior or actions bothered you in the first place.

    You may find an event or experience deep in your past that was triggered for healing and resolution. You can then share what it was that triggered you and why and allow both of you to come closer and forgive each other. The annoying energy usually dissipates of its own accord as there is no longer any need for it to be triggered.

    A new level of relating can come into being between you allowing each of you to grow and shift in new ways towards healthy relationships that allow trust, forgiveness and healing.  This applies to all relationships we experience, parent, child, friends, co-workers, spouse, practitioners, etc.

    In supporting new learning we can offer insight, awareness, tools, books, and space for the person to come into a new level of awareness about the action or situation. We can offer an environment that allows the person room to grow in their own time and in their own way that helps them to"get it".  We can offer patience and compassion while they are going through their growth. On occasion we can offer inspiration, motivation and stimulation to help the person come into a new awareness as we feel they are ready. In this journey of love we each want to come into these new awareness's on our own and be grateful for when others can help us to see them or experience them. Fertile loving ground helps the person to feel safe to share, safe to grow and be accepted as the new person they are becoming instead of holding them as they were before. They have changed and grown and so have you. Nurture the divine spark in everyone you meet, see the divine in them regardless of their behavior. See the face of Jesus or Mary on their face if you need to remember the divine within them.

    Remember to love them, bless them and see the Christ light shining through them. If you still feel that desire for them to "get it" go back and ask Creator to help you see what it is you need to change so that you can feel neutral regarding the person. Once you feel that there is no push or pull you will feel free, they will feel free and healing can occur. Remember the journey of life is a process....


OPEN - to hear guidance, receive truth and blessing

SURRENDER - your personal assessment of the situation

EMBRACE - the truth of what spirit shows you

RELEASE - what you have held in your thoughts and emotions up to this time

EXPAND - your conscious awareness about yourself, the person or situation, the outcome

    With these five steps you are freed for you limited thinking and back in the flow of divine thinking and divine grace.

Masterful divine consciousness is your birthright -claim it!

Blessings,
Arianha

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